I’ll explain and give examples in just a second 🙂 My experience has also been that Although there is plenty to say about this combination of push-pull and cocky-funny, I’ll leave that to another article.
My focus here is on the 80/20 principle applied to the push-pull dynamic. What I say here is NOT for absolute newbies, who don’t yet have their fundamentals down (body language, tonality, and basic inner game). A quickie definition of push-pull straight from the pen of Swingcat: We’ll be filling this out as we go along. While you can succeed using almost any combination of push and pull (e.g., 80% push-20% pull, 50% push-50% pull), This applies only if the following also hold: a.
One very effective kind of pull technique is in conjunction with screening and qualifying.
If you’re confident and cool, then every qualification is actually a pull.
After closely observing naturals who are masters at rapid escalations, and after a lot of discussion about this with guys like Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks, who have really tight game, I’ve discovered a VERY important enhancement to the push-pull and cocky-funny concepts.
This small bit of fine-tuning can make it SO much easier to get a girl, and create much stronger, closer emotional connections.
There are others, of course, like sharing secrets and using childhood regression, but this is one of the easiest to do. And this is a KEY distinction: push cocky-funny, and pull cocky-funny. Well, the best way to illustrate what I mean is through examples. Let’s first talk about the internal mindset behind Push Cocky-Funny. helpfully lays it all out: “I’m going to play hard to get, make fun of her, be indifferent towards her, and generally bust her balls as much as possible. (Pull #2) Her: (breaking out laughing): Where are you from?
[CAVEAT: If the man only has average fundamentals and the woman is only of average confidence in her own attractiveness and value, then the optimal mix is further down the continuum and closer to 50-50 push-pull..
and when she starts to show any interest at all on the outside, I’m going to blow her off and make her prove to me that she wants me…