Dating advice on a french guy
They are cultured and elegant, but they are nonchalant about their culture and their elegance. That casualness, that carelessness, is to me a very Parisian quality. That same nonchalance must apply to seduction as well. But romanticism is a fantasy that has no place in real life.
People read Proust, or Marivaux, and assume Paris is the most romantic city in the world. If you are neither faux-ugly nor faux-romantic, don't bother.
Surprise can bet such an exciting element of kissing.
Maybe you mix it up from trying no tongue to trying a little more tongue to backing off on the tongue.
For me, the woman who best embodies this duality is Isabelle Adjani. What most impresses a French woman is when you know before she does that the two of you are going to live a great love story together. Cheese can be eaten with friends or with family, but among lovers, it's out of the question. It has to do with our origins, a mix of Latin and Celtic.
Men like Serge Gainsbourg or Vincent Cassel are the ultimate sex symbols in France.
But there are a few things you can do to help your cause: Don't shave too closely.