Mystery method of dating
You will need to learn to suppress them, but they are normal, and everyone -- even MM instructors -- have them. We not only need to open (suppressing our built-in emotions) but we have to open well. With some practice and some live examples and feedback from a trained instructor, anyone should be opening successfully, 99 times out of 100, after a couple weeks of work.Opening poorly can doom the rest of your interaction with a woman (and any other women who see it) and make everything else you do a giant waste of time. Most experienced guys don't even think about opening anymore.Like for example having her to show interest in you and you being interested in her for something more than pure look. Indeed if you are an obviously cool guy, there is no point in telling women you’ll leave soon if they are happy that you’re there.And it’s even more damaging to neg someone if they think you’re a high value man: that would create too big of a gap between you two.Negs | Mystery Method | David Deangelo | Cocky and Funny | Christian Carter | Seduction Guide How to Talk to Women How to Pick Up Women How to Meet Women How to Attract Women How to Approach Women Rori Raye Ross Jeffries | Derek Vitalio - Pick up Artist - Neil Strauss - Mens Dating Tips Double Your Dating Paul Janka Speed Seduction 2 Girls Teach Sex In the first issue of the OAP, I gave an introduction to the Mystery Method and the M3 model. To begin a sexual relationship with a women, you have to first ATTRACT her, then build COMFORT, and then finally SEDUCE her.
Some ideas are good in principle or in some situations, but not good to adopt as your baseline behavior.Often it’s best to be the silent guy who only focuses on the girl he likes.Some other social dynamics principles are very good instead. However, not to be used at all times as your baseline behavior.For example the author used to say it takes “eight hours for a woman to be comfortable enough to sleep with you”, which of course is nonsense.
It can happen much quicker with a simple glance (or it can never happen at all, of course).
For example, the ATTRACT phase is divided into Attract 1 (or A1): Opening; Attract 2 (or A2) Attracting; and Attract 3 (or A3) Qualifying. Essentially, it's the first 3-90 seconds of an interaction with a woman, whereby you begin a conversation. There are good evolutionary-biological reasons for this (in prehistoric times, approaching an unknown woman without permission or an introduction could lead to violent retaliation from her extended family), but that's probably not a lot of comfort.