Reasons not to use dating sites
Three dates max, though more often than not, just one date.I changed my profile multiple times, asked others' opinions, even solicited feedback from some of my dates (there were a lot of nice guys; in fact, I'm still good platonic friends with one of my first Match dates).
Even my hottest friends, who by all logic should be cleaning up on these apps, find online dating excruciating.(We haven't.)All you’re doing on Tinder—all anyone is doing on Tinder—is waiting out the time until they find a real life person they actually care about dating.You can waste as much headspace as you want on the app, widen your search to 25 miles, up your age range to 72.I met my current BF (whom I've been dating almost a year) indirectly through Facebook. On Facebook, these people had some idea of what I was like in real life.
Like most people, I tend to present the "best" version of myself on Facebook, but my potential suitors knew (or knew of) me as a real person first.
I hardly ever got anyone with kids, or who was recently divorced.